If you find yourself listening to the words which someone has used, and saying “obviously, what they meant was…”, chances are that you did not listen to what they said.
No one at all can “have it all” without losing something very important. Top business people have no home or family lives of their own, and that is the waste of a life.
I put the little girl to bed on my own. She missed her dad, and I missed him too. He may have been utterly useless domestically, but his presence was reassuring.